Schools, Schools, all types of Schools
December 30, 2009
Okay, heres the deal…. Last night, my parents kept the kiddos and Mike and I got to have date night. During drinks and appetizers I drove Mike crazy obsessing over schools. The conversation definitely ended in frustration. I take full responsibility. I know I am annoyingly analyzing the situation, but until I make a decision, I feel like it is hanging over my head. I feel like it is such a huge decision and a ginormous responsibility to put my children in the situation that best suits their needs and our wants as parents. Mike had the brilliant idea of putting down on paper, exactly what I want in a school. I may not find a situation that fits my every wish, but I need to know what I am willing to compromise on and what is non negotiable. So here is me thinking out loud (and I need opinions, PLEASE let me know what you think!) ….
My wish list:
Safe enviroment
Quality Education
Small class size
Opportunity i.e. arts, music, language, sports, computer labs, community service etc
I know people disagree with me on this, but I am not a fan of all day kindergarten, in saying that… there is only one private school I know of that does not have full day kindergarten (out of all the public and private)
Teachers that want to be there (I have no idea how that can be measured!)
An environment that is creative and thriving not stagnant and monotonous
A classroom that a teacher can teach in and not just manage (ie. a class of 25 kindergarteners in which 5 have major behavior problems)
That is the jist of it.
There are 3 options for school (at least that I know of) Public, Private, Home school. I have my issues with all three.
Negatives:
Public- Large classrooms, teachers that can’t/don’t get fired when they probably should, No Child Left Behind (teaching to test scores), less control as a parent as to who your child is surrounded by, more behavior problems (emotional and behavior problems are not allowed to be diagnosed until 1st or 2nd grade)
Private- Surrounded by kids whose parents can send them to private school, depending on the school- it can be a public school on steroids, expensive- tuition, uniforms, all the extras, depending on the school- not the same athletic options
Home school- I personally, don’t know if I would be good at it, A LOT of togetherness, don’t get the experience of not being the center of attention, don’t get all the goodies that go along with a school (sports, arts, etc), don’t have the same opportunities to put into practice all that you have taught- tolerance, loving everyone, saying “no”, sharing, dealing with people they may not like, etc.
Positives
Public- free, larger school experience, more exposure to other cultures and families that are different from your own (actually, I am not really sure about this one…, I read an article talking about how school is one of the only institutions left that separates people based on income level, house location (which people tend to live by people that are the “same” as them), which also leads to cultural separation)
Private- more control, typically more parental involvement, smaller class size (smaller school size in general), can choose a school that teaches the same moral standards as your family, can kick people out/not accept people, by paying for school HOPEFULLY (depends on the school) you would get some of the extras that public schools are limited in now – arts, music etc, the ability to pick the school that best fits your child’s learning style
Home school- COMPLETE CONTROL over everything: who your child socializes with, what they are taught, the curriculum used, when you vacation…everything
At this point, I am leaning more towards private school but I am torn. I would love to hear thoughts and experiences from all sides!
Menu Plan Monday
December 13, 2009
It worked! My Get-Scott-To-Eat-Dinner plan worked! Every night last week, I only made ONE dinner for the entire family. I am really happy about this. The plan will continue into this and maybe forever. Actually my grocery bill wasn’t any higher than normal. Steak was on super sale so that helped of course. I have a couple of things from last week leftover, I forgot that Mike had a meeting on Thursday night so things go pushed. So this week won’t be super exciting….
Nothing else is really new. Just getting excited about Christmas!
I am still on a rib hunt. So far, I have eaten them at Billy Rays, Big Daddy’s, and Red River Canyon. (yes, I have ribs 3 times in one week. no, I am not embarrassed.) So far, Billy Rays and River Canyon have been my favorite, but the search continues. I think I am going to attempt to make them. Any good recipes???
Monday: Steaks (I didn’t take them out of the freezer in time to eat them tonight) potatoes, veggies.
Tuesday: Frozen Halibut from WF (YUM!), broccoli and rice
Wednesday: Honey Chicken Kabobs (from last week), noodles, and spinach
Thursday: Breakfast for dinner
Friday: Baked Ham, either this recipe or this recipe, depending on if I find a pre cooked ham at WF or not….
Saturday: Out with cousins, grandparents, parents, etc for dinner
Sunday: Leftovers.
S.A.D. (I have it.)
December 10, 2009
This is complaining. I recognize it and I own it. I am giving myself the next 15 minutes (or however long it takes me write this) to complain and then I am tucking it all away for until I am able to bust out my flip flops again.
I do not like the winter. I believe Christmas is celebrated in the winter to make the season bearable. Here are the reasons why I wish it was summer:
1. Dry skin. Enough said.
2. Having to wear more clothes.
3. Having more laundry because winter clothes take up more room.
4. Having to add 15 mintues onto the routine in order to bundle everyone up to get out of the house.
5. Less outside time. Which leads to more inside time. Which leads to claustrophobia.
6. The pool isn’t open.
7. It is cold.
8. Having to wear socks.
9. Running with frozen hair is not fun. It takes the entire day to feel warm again.
10. Winter clothes are not as cute as summer clothes.
11. No outside projects.
12. No evening walks or nights on the deck.
13. More TV watching.
14. Uglyer trees and grass.
15. The pool isn’t open.
16. Seeing friends less. (that might be the fault of school but I am choosing to blame winter)
17. Less sunglass choices. Which, I totally don’t get. Just because it is cold doesn’t mean we don’t need sunglasses!
18. No grilling outside.
19. Less day light hours.
20. Less to do with kids.
21. Ice.
22. Humidifiers. Our bedrooms all sound like we are on life support.
23. More eating with less exercising.
24. Harder to have people over. Totally my opinion, but it is easier to have families over when the kids can run wild outside while the adults hang out. If you have two families, that is about 6 + kids plus 6 adults that is a lot of people to be stuck inside. (at least at our house!)
25. More stuff to deal with. When I went to WF the on Tuesday our cart was full before we even started shopping. 2 coats, 2 hats, one puffy vest, diaper bag, and shopping bags. Ugh.
26. The pool isn’t open.
That is all I can come up with right now. I am sending these complaints out into the world to brighten your day.